A huge part of attracting and seducing a woman happens before the two of you even speak. I would say probably 90%! Women want certain things from a man, and it is your job to present it to them. Better than presenting certain characteristics is to actually be someone who has these characteristics!
If you will recall step one of my four part process: Line yourself up in the woman’s line of sight and exude the characteristics she wants to see (Alpha male characteristics). She has made up 90% of her mind about you before you even speak to her.
This is because she wants an alpha male. She wants a confident male. She wants a leader. Your body language will tell her every time. It’s easier to rally have strong body language than to just pretend. How do you get strong body language?
You obtain it by living a great life. You obtain it by going after the things that you are zealous about. You obtain it by living a well-rounded life and having a strong foundation. By having a solid foundation, women will be a derivative of your awesome life, not the basis for it.
So, what are you passionate about? Why do you get up in the morning? Having a clear sense of who you are and what you want out of life is the start of a strong foundation. Be honest with yourself. It can be difficult to analyze yourself in this manner, but it is something you must do to start laying the foundation.
Do you want to improve yourself, or is getting dates what encompasses who you are? Women are a result of your great life. Paradoxically, this is less about women and more about you. If you are living your wonderful life you will attract more women than if women are the criteria of whether or not your life is great.
Which guy do you think attracts more women, the guy at the club who is out with his friends joking and laughing and having a great time, or the guy out with his friends “looking for a date”? Do you see what I mean? Now, go out there and start living!
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