Is there a “magic” method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. How cool is that? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.
“How to get my ex back” will start with getting your ex to return your phone call, IM or text message. Remember, this can be done easily, but it’s just a simple formula and not a complete plan. You can learn more about that in our ebook. If you do this right, it will be the begining of a wonderfull get back together with your ex.
Ok, the first thing you have to learn is what not to say. Many people make this, so I will explain them. This will almost never work, will get you into a disadvantage position and only create a situation where you will not get your ex back
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like “John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.” Of course, this call is not going to be returned. And if it is, you will be in a disadvantage position. You don’t want your ex to call you back because he pities you!
The Emergency. “Hello, I am calling you because I have an emergency, please call me as soon as possible.” Your ex can catch this fake call a mile away. What does this say about you? Only that you are desperate enough to lie, and this is clearly not going to help you.
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches? There are much better ways to get your ex attention back. Since there are a number of methos and a sound plan you can use, let’s start with some of the basic ones.
Using curiosity and selft interest in your favor. The things humans can’t avoid are curiosity and self interest. This are powerful forces everybody reacts too. The big secret? combine the two and you will get a formula that works everytime!
Call your ex and say something like “Hello, it’s me. I just wanted to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. When you get the chance, give me a call so I can tell you personaly”. Can you see how this uses curiosity and self interest in one sweep? Your ex can’t resist calling you back! “What is it that I did?”, “Appreciates what?”, your ex will think. Also, it’s a positive message, so he/she will get in the phone for sure.
Now, prepare mentally for what you are going to say. What did your ex did right for you? Maybe it was some advice or a positive criticism that helped you. Maybe it was when you needed to talk with someone and she/he was there for you. Work on this so you can tell your ex about it. Just remember that you will get a call back and maybe a date, but this is just the beginning of getting your ex back. You need a plan.
With this simple method, you will have your ex calling you, but is only a part of a larger strategy. If you really want to get your ex back, you have to have a plan. You now can have a call and maybe a date. Now you have to work to get your ex back.