Here are the 3 reasons for this.
The first reason is may be new to you - being socially proactive.
I recall when I first started lifting weights, I didn’t have upper pectoral muscles - the muscle at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.
Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.
And then I reached the point where the muscle was developed that I could handle heavy weight without all the fatigue and soreness. Same as in your mind.
It takes time to develop these new neuro-pathways on your own. If you’re not pushing yourself HARD day in-day out, it can take awhile, depending on your skill level.
The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.
Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from “fatigue.”
When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement, which may feel like exhaustion if you’re not deeply aware. It’s like your body is saying “ugh, it’s too much work. I give up before I can even begin.”
I have suffered from this feeling before when I was taking notes of a lot of theories. And as I looked what I’ve write, I see that I am just looking at the complicated thing just like a complex physics equation.
It was daunting to think that I had to DO all this stuff just to have quality women in my life.
The last reason for feeling exhausted in the dating and mating game is that you are spending too much mental energy in the wrong places, wasting your focus on stuff that isn’t useful to pickup.
99 percent of men gets it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can’t tell, because most men after suffering from a few harsh rejections learn to hide their inner “stuff.”
But this doesn’t negate the fact that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he spends his mental energy on trying to impress her, or figure out if she likes him.
It’s the man’s role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN sex from her - as what we get from the media, our parents and friends.
Ridiculous!
I get so mad when I see some commercial with a guy bumbling around trying to impress some cute girl, and looking like a fool while she giggles like she’s better than him because she’s a girl.
Ok, enough for that protest… my point here is that so many guys are being screwed when it comes to the control of their dating game.
The matter of attraction for a guy will be change if he will only takes the time to adjust the way his mind works.
Once you get to highest level of your interaction with women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need to be at your best both physically and emotionally.
A MAN AT HIS BEST.