Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?
And how does it feel that despite of all the effort you’re doing you’re still not getting an inch closer to your goal?
READ ON if you answered YES those questions.
Honestly, going for a date can be quite frustrating.
You see a girl you like, but she has a boyfriend.
Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your calls.
Not to mention the fact that as the man you pretty much have to do everything to move things forward.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.
Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.
(Don’t get me started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “pretty.”)
Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.
… I have encountered a client that has a problem of “extroversion fatigue.”
I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.
Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.
I would have to sit down and rest!
Come to think how strange the situation is, I am supposed to have fun and relax but instead I am working harder than I was at my full time job.
I’d go home and be absolutely DEAD
… from TALKING TO WOMEN!
Does that make any sense???
And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.
It is just like I am having an overtime in my full-time job!
When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
I would push myself like professional athletes push themselves in the gym.
I was working muscles or to be more precise I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS, that I had never used before
If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.