The idea that the other man can be more “dominant” that you are is the next important thing that I want to talk about.
The concept of the alpha male is completely outdated. In the caveman days, the alpha male had real power - he had access to resources like food, and was physically stronger, so he could beat up competitors.
But ask yourself if those powers are relevant today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own - if you’re reading this, you probably have access to food and shelter. You’re all set.
Plus, its illegal to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It is pretty much irrelevant to use in the modern world.
Attacking another person will always end you up defeated because the police always win.
If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!
Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!
When you’re on your deathbed, you are going to look back on all the things you did and didn’t do. How painful would it be to say “I didn’t meet that girl because I was scared of another guy,” or “there were so many beautiful women I could’ve enjoyed, but I didn’t even try because I saw them TALKING to another guy.”
I don’t want you to be like that.
So let’s look at this on a deeper level. Seeing another guy as more dominant means you don’t truly understand dominance.
You see, if you’re concerned with who is more dominant you instantly make yourself NOT dominant. There’s a better focus.
You must first THINK like a dominant man in order to become dominant. And dominant men doesn’t care who is more dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is that they are doing or want.
You see a group of girls talking to another guy. Instead of being concerned with who is more dominant between the two of you, just stay focus on the girls.
I rarely even acknowledge other guys, because too often it’s proven to be a waste of time. 9 times out of 10 the girls don’t even know the guy - they just met him.
Or if they do, maybe ONE of the girls know him, and barely the rest know him.
Normally, seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating, more often they would like to bring with them a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
Besides, if he IS with one of the girls, that means he’s NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.
You are NOT the alpha male by definition, if you are concerned with who’s the alpha male is. In fact, in this modern world it’s questionable whether alpha males truly exist .
Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don’t allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!