Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a “10″ kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…
Back in high school, I had a girl classmate that was so perfect.
She was smart, cool, and so beautiful it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t look away)…
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I wanted to ask her to senior prom so badly…but I chickened out at the last minute.
I realized after some few years that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I’ve talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart…
Ah, the unreachable “10,” a perfect woman that every men dream but seems hard to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
The woman that is perfect for you is the one who can turns you on and have a great chemistry with you. That is the only true “10″.
Subsequently, there are a lot of 10’s in the world, you just need to have the ability to meet a bunch of women, and make an options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because almost all men do that.
She knows what you’re about and sees you as shallow.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
As I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clarify.
You shouldn’t treat a woman BETTER than the other women. But there are things that you need to know.
First of all, a woman is turn off for those men that chases her only for the looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for the benefits of yours, I’ll give you a heads up.
The so-called “10’s” has two different types.
Low self-esteem and high self-esteem.
The pretty common is the low self-esteem 10’s. Women here have a guilt complex. Because they are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn’t EARN that attention.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(Aside from that, these women usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
They know that they can get closer to a great life than everyone else, and they are motivated to put a lot of hard work to attain that.
Usually these women have good attitudes, are intelligent, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, most of beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t go to the club. They just spend their nights being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
One of the interesting thing about this types of women are that they are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
The Attraction Code is about being a “male 10,” the best man you can be.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you’ll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they’re not on your level.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you’ll also enjoy plenty of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year missing something that you could’ve been enjoying right now.
Vin