Widely Respected Scientific Study Reveals: Women Love Sex This statistic was derived in a 2007 study by Paige M. Padgett, PhD. while she was a research associate at the University Of Texas School Of Public Health. Padgett’s study, entitled “Personal Safety and Sexual Safety for Women Using Online Personal Ads” was published in the widely respected scientific journal, Research & Social Policy, a journal of the National Sexuality Research Center.
Dr. Padgett’s research involved seven hundred forty (740) women who had put dating profiles online seeking men. The result of the study: Earthshattering!! Thirty-three percent (33%) of the women daters had sex on the 1st date. Even more shocking, seventy-seven percent (77%) of them didn’t use a condom.
Virtual Intimacy Theory The good Doctor Padgett didn’t merely conclude that these women were slutty. However, she did find that women who would otherwise be very careful did have unprotected sex because they were lulled into a false sense of virtual intimacy by men.
Dr. Padgett reasoned that the “virtual intimacy” was created by the disclosure and exchange of personal information through frequent e-mail and telephone calls. The women revealed information about their backgrounds, sexual preferences, and their likes and dislikes with the men they eventually slept with on their 1st date.
Dr. Padgett concludes it was the exchange of personal information that created “virtual intimacy”. The women created a pseudo-relationship (whether or not one really existed) which resulted in sexual intimacy more quickly than usual.
So What Does This Mean For Guys? The take home message for guys: Start Online Dating Now. It’s cheaper than clubbing & bar hopping and you’ll get laid more often on a 1st date, but definitely use condoms!
My Interpretation of Padgett & Her Study: She is overly Paternalistic in her conclusions. She paints women as prey and men as predators who trick women into feeling secure and fool women with so-called “virtual intimacy”. BullShit!!
Applying Common Sense To Padgett’s Study Let’s apply common sense and give women the credit they deserve. Women who date online know exactly what they want. They want to find attractive mates that meet their dating criteria. They select one or several potential mates from the endless number that constantly email them. Then they asked a series questions to determine whether this particular male meets their criteria. If so, it’s on!
If you shine a light on what’s really happening, you’ll discover that the women are the ones speeding up the sexual relationship. How? Simple. The women in Padgett’s study (and all online women daters) try to learn as much as possible about their potential sex partners as quickly as possible, whether by telephone or e-mail before meeting face-to-face.
Why? For one reason: to allow themselves to participate in naked time as soon as possible. When a woman finally convinces herself that a man meets her dating qualifications she will have sex with him. In Padgett’s study, the women had decided after reading email and having telephone conversations that they would sleep with their dates on their first meeting because the man in question had met her qualifications or at least enough of them for sex!
Using Padgett’s Study To Your Advantage. In sum, women love sex just as much as you do. However, the most important piece of information that I’ve learned from my online dating experiences which is supported by Padgett’s research: Women need to convince themselves that you meet their dating criteria and that you are a Quality Guy.
This is where so many guys shoot themselves in the foot. They think that they must have (1) money; (2) power; or (3) fame to succeed with women. Simply not true. Here’s my secret that is backed up by Padgett’s findings: To succeed in online dating the only thing you need to do is not disqualify yourself. Women have questions, yes. They have criteria, yes.
Yet, women only want you to respond to their questions and portray yourself in a frank manner in order that they can say to themselves, “Hey this man is available, seems normal, and he’s mine.” They will then grant themselves permission to have sex.
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