It is taught to young men that their physical urges is crude and silly, and that women are just doing a favor to sleep with them.
There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This brings to an opinion that women are “better,” and that their time is more important than yours.
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here’s the thing - if you are giving a woman too much time, you won’t be present for most of that time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.
This makes our time better, and aside from that it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women obsess more.
Now my women can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.
I don’t recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
Just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want. no need of games.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
You can’t “keep” a woman by investing all your time with her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It either she will make you feel guilty or you will feel it on your own. That’s ok, it just means that you have a weak focus.
You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.
And no, we don’t try to impose our values or goals onto you. We think you’ll be able to do that for yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin