Young men are taught that their carnal desire is crude and silly, and that women are doing you a favor by ALLOWING YOU to mate with them.
There’s a syndrome that I call a “doofus dad” syndromeThere’s another societal factor going on, . In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/daughter/girlfriend/wife has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
You will feel obligated to give a woman a LOT OF TIME if your time is not so valuable.
But here’s the thing - you won’t be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After that I started to give my FULL ATTENTION to women even though I’m only giving a smaller amounts of my time.
Not only did this make our time better, it created MASSIVE ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Ask you know, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me, and women can’t be pulled to what they already have.
I don’t recommend playing games with girls and you pretend to be busy or whatever. In reality, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It’s a sad thing to see that men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
Women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow take with you when you die. Think about that.
It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
It’s either a girl will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
You see, if you are following your true path, it will usually stray from the social norm.
You will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first, if you are in the habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you.
That is why I discover and develop the Attraction Code. You can learn about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ deep within.
And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin