Flirting through texting is 10 times easier than in real life and the overall impact is better!
Women
When it comes to text messaging, women seem to have it pretty easy. Why? Well, for two reasons: First, it is because men do most of the approaching, and the other is the fact that women are more experienced because they send 100 times more text messages than men.
This does not necessarily mean women are good at texting. In fact, women goof up pretty bad in some areas. One area women really mess up in is when they send boring one-liners. For example, lets say a guy sends a message like, “That was a crazy concert last night, how did you like it?” About 50 percent of the time the woman is going to respond with some boring one-liner that has no question attached to it like, “it was good” or “good.” Some women think this is playing “hard to get” when really they are playing “boring to interact with so move on.” In the big picture, a lot of these women are ruining their chances and they have no idea they are doing it. Now let’s go back and give a flirty response that men can work with… for example: “Ya I loved it, you will have to try to keep up with me next time :)” As you can see there is a pull to respond back and most importantly, it’s FLIRTING!
Men
As mentioned before, the roles and principles in texting are the same as communicating in real life. It’s just a simplified and easier system. The only problem a man runs into is not being able to see the result from their text messages. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, time and time again, I have seen inexperienced men produce the same poor results and not even realize what’s happening.
Here’s what I mean. A man will almost always go into default mode when they get a text message from an attractive woman. What happens is they end up sending normal day-to-day messages like they are writing to a friend. For example, “messages like, how was your day?” “I am at school, and I wish it was over” or “What are you doing?” will burn away any of the attraction that was created. It’s boring and it has no feeling to it and ultimately it destroys a lot of the success you can have with women.
Here’s the best way to fix the problem, start sending messages that make women feel something. Let’s take a boring line above and plug a little feeling into it: “Hey you, I was just in class and the teacher there reminded me of you, except she is a little cuter.” Or instead of asking what they are doing, try texting, “Hey we are having a barbecue later on today, I think I can fit in one more space for you, you in?”
We all watch movies because they make us feel something, and women especially, are not involved in anything unless their emotions are in it. You will have more and more of the women you desire when you start figuring how to implement these tips into your text messages.